Friday, August 3, 2018

Getting Grandparent Visitations Rancho Cucamonga Parents Must Abide By

By Dorothy Graham


It's not unusual for family members to disagree, have serious arguments, and even stop speaking for a time. Unfortunately sometimes parents refuse to allow grandparents to interact with grandchildren unless certain criteria are met. When parents are totally unreasonable, and grandparents have serious concerns about how grandchildren are being raised, going to court to get legal grandparent visitations Rancho Cucamonga judges order may be necessary.

Before you go to this extreme, you need to sit down and think about what exactly it is that you want. You might be seeking the legal right to have access to your grandchildren with a court ordered visitation schedule. If it's your belief that one or both of the parents is suffering from substance abuse, or resorting to physical violence, you will be concerned enough to sue for partial or full custody, at least until the parents demonstrate sobriety.

It's not easy for grandparents to get custody. The courts try to keep families together, and they will rule in the best interests of the minor children. Getting custody requires proving the children are being abused, neglected, or have been abandoned. If the grandchildren have been in your care for some time, it could be possible to show that you have earned custodial rights.

You can't handle this yourself. You will have to hire a good attorney who specializes in family law. These cases are complicated, and you will be spending a lot of time with your attorney. You should turn over all the documentation you have as early as possible. In your first meeting, the attorney will discuss the merits of the case, and tell you what her fee structure is.

Once you have all the information, you and your attorney can begin to prepare your case. The type of case you bring depends on the circumstances. You may be requesting visitation, which is often granted. It might be that you are seeking temporary custody because the parents are temporarily unfit. Legal custody means you are in charge of the children until they reach the age of eighteen.

After filing a petition, the work of finalizing this case, for both sides, will begin. You might have to appear in one of the attorney's offices to be deposed, meaning you will be under oath answering questions asked by the opposing attorney. There will be lists of witnesses, some expert, to file with the court.

If you really want to understand what is going on in court, it is a good idea to familiarize yourself with the language and court procedures. The judge may order the parties to enter into mediation to try and work out the differences prior to going to trial. You have no choice but to attend. If the mediation doesn't result in an agreement, the case proceeds.

It is always a better idea to resolve differences before going to court. Unless the grandchildren are in danger, you should do everything possible to come to a mutual agreement. That's better for you, your children, and your grandchildren.




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