Monday, March 21, 2016

Marriage: Finding The Truth In A Marriage Situation

By Charley Davids


Couples fight all of the time. Many couples feel like they are misunderstood by their partner. It is true that 50% of all marriages fail within a few years. It is a lot like a failed business. When two people love one another, it is important to have open communication.

If you believe that marriage is a sacred vow, then it is probably a good choice for you. Many religions in the world teach that marriage is a lifetime commitment. Divorce is never an option after you have walked down the aisle.

The average marrying age today is around 27 for women and 33 for men. It is important to understand the reasons why so many people choose to marry. Most marriages end in divorce after the first 5 years.

If you can make your marriage work beyond 5 years, you probably have a good shot of keeping your partner for life. Life partners almost always come into play when everything around you works well. Keep your options open.

When someone is busy, they often feel like they cannot do a lot around the house. If the house is a mess, try to come together and work on a chores schedule. Too many couples fight over the simple things in life. This often leads to more problems.

If you have a fight with your partner, it is important to say I am sorry right away. If you let the problem linger on, it can cause loads of confusion later on. It is important to not give up on your marriage is you feel misunderstood. Eventually your partners will understand where you are coming from.

Many couples today fight because nobody understands gender roles. At one point in time, couples often said that a man was supposed to do something and the women was supposed to do something else as well. Today, these stereotypes have changed.

If you feel like you have met "the one", expect challenges to come ahead. Many couples fight over money and material possessions. This is often the hardest part about being married. If you argue a lot, your marriage may see a divorce. Make sure to always make up before you go to bed.




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