We've all been there.
You know, the situation in which your love is being abused. That time when your heart was sinking because someone was taking complete advantage of all that you had to offer and you found it incredibly hard to do anything about it? Yes, that situation.
Although we've all been there and being in this place is the worst, we have to do the one thing that we never really want to do - walk away from the situation.
There's this really interesting art in leaving people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to reply to you, or don't act like you mean much to them.
The art is being able to speak your truth and come from the heart while creating personal boundaries letting another person know that "what has been going on is not okay."
This can be very difficult to do however.
At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
Your heart. Let your heart tell you what to do. The funny thing about our heart is that it usually knows exactly what we need but it's our mind that tends to override all of it. When you dig into your heart you give yourself the best opportunity to take care of yourself and move forward.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This doesn't at all mean that doing this isn't a painful process. It can be incredibly painful.
If you refuse to remove toxic people from your life you will end up being dragged down by their negative attitudes and it will tear apart your life in the long run.
So have the courage to walk away.
Of course, there's an art form in being able to give people second chances and really knowing when enough is enough. Truth is, you really have to dig into your heart when you are in these moments and let your inner wisdom speak.
However, it's important to always remember exactly what you are worth and what you are looking for in your life. If you negotiate for anything less, you can really get the bad end of the deal.
If you want a life full of love and brilliance you have to first treat yourself with respect. Without taking care of yourself you will never be able to attract the type of person into your life who respects themselves fully as well.
And living a life full of love and excellence is the way to go.
You know, the situation in which your love is being abused. That time when your heart was sinking because someone was taking complete advantage of all that you had to offer and you found it incredibly hard to do anything about it? Yes, that situation.
Although we've all been there and being in this place is the worst, we have to do the one thing that we never really want to do - walk away from the situation.
There's this really interesting art in leaving people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to reply to you, or don't act like you mean much to them.
The art is being able to speak your truth and come from the heart while creating personal boundaries letting another person know that "what has been going on is not okay."
This can be very difficult to do however.
At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?
Your heart. Let your heart tell you what to do. The funny thing about our heart is that it usually knows exactly what we need but it's our mind that tends to override all of it. When you dig into your heart you give yourself the best opportunity to take care of yourself and move forward.
When you know what you're worth, you won't put up with other people treating you badly.
This doesn't at all mean that doing this isn't a painful process. It can be incredibly painful.
If you refuse to remove toxic people from your life you will end up being dragged down by their negative attitudes and it will tear apart your life in the long run.
So have the courage to walk away.
Of course, there's an art form in being able to give people second chances and really knowing when enough is enough. Truth is, you really have to dig into your heart when you are in these moments and let your inner wisdom speak.
However, it's important to always remember exactly what you are worth and what you are looking for in your life. If you negotiate for anything less, you can really get the bad end of the deal.
If you want a life full of love and brilliance you have to first treat yourself with respect. Without taking care of yourself you will never be able to attract the type of person into your life who respects themselves fully as well.
And living a life full of love and excellence is the way to go.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a fearless adventurer, professional life coach and writer. He is on a mission to incite the hearts and minds of those around him and help them live their best lives. Read more of his work at The Better Man Projects and throw yourself into these Life Is Too Short Quotes for some more inspiration and motivation.
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