Friday, February 7, 2014

Useful Details About Raising Your Children

By Steven Spellborgh


Children always love to play. As a parent engaging in their plays or playing with them helps them learn new skills. Engaging them in role plays will also help them accept who they are. Sharing and playing with them always portrays great family ties. The ties become even stronger when the activity is done by both parents.

It always pains any parents to see their kids suffer. Just like the bible asks which of you if his son asks for bread will give him stone or if the he asks for fish will give him a snake? The answer to these questions is always none. Therefore as a parent you need to do a number of things to ensure that your kids are not affected by your dysfunctional marriage.

As much as the confusion is there, sometimes getting reference from a book may help you understand why your child behaves at a particular way. However, your own friends and family members will not help you to know how to bring up your child. This is because every child is unique.

Kids are usually physically comfortable in the midst of family. They are commonly referred to as learning machines until they are fully trained act as young adults and become limited to tasks that they are requested to act upon. Due to this their relationship with their parents needs to be built on trust.

The result of this is that the kid becomes the victim of all toxic information passed through him or her. To curb this just avoid involving the kids into it. It is even better to send a text message, leave a note or write an email if you do not have the guts to face your spouse.

School helps to shape a child's formation and social integration. Every child should be given the right to education. School is where a child acquires the knowledge necessary for growth and begins the social and cultural integration that is necessary to become a full citizen of the society in which he or she lives.

Involving kids with your work and playing with them brings out positive emotions. Apart from enjoying the activities as a parent you will also be healed. The kind of bond developed during this time is very strong and cannot be broken. However in modern day life, keeping your kids engaged is a huge task. This is due to the evolving technology that has outdone most natural games that used to be played by kids.

Other parents tend to ignore their kids desires while they are experiencing relationship troubles. As a parent your responsibility is to always meet the needs of your kids regardless of anything. Therefore, avoid ignoring their mental, physical, spiritual, emotional or relational needs.

One way of improving the current situation of documented children is to increase their own awareness of rights and entitlements by creative outreach . Some European cities have achieved good results using cultural mediators for this work. These efforts can be assessed and disseminated by targeted, participatory research to make them more effective.

Such measures have been known to last up to two months. The effect of this separation on young children has not been documented. In its recent exchange with the UN Human Rights Committee, the Irish government conceded that children had been separated from their parents as a consequence of deportation.

Contrary to popular assumption, growing up in highly affluent families can have negative effects on development. The stereotype of the poor little rich kid seems to have some basis in fact. For example, compared with inner-city adolescents, affluent youth report higher levels of anxiety, greater depression, and more use of illicit substances (cigarettes, alcohol, marijuana, and other drugs). Although adolescents use of illicit substances is linked with depression and anxiety, it is also associated with popularity, suggesting that peer influences may actively promote this behavior.

The first style is referred to as strict and authoritarian parenting. This style might be a little autocratic since there is a lot of control of the kid. This is because the child is not permitted to question your suggestions or decisions as a parent. The only thing that a child is expected to do is to obey whatever thing he or she is told. In this parenting style a child will never get a chance to disagree with you.

Undocumented kids are also sometimes separated from their parents on child-protection grounds. Although such measures generally have a stronger legal basis than the cases just described. Some cases include court oversight and there may be evidence of discrimination.

Ensure that you prioritize their needs regardless of what your spouse does. While experiencing relationship wrangles it is important to teach your kids how to pray and pray with them regularly. Ensure that it is not hypocritical to have a good relationship with God even if your marriage is broken.

The third style of parenting is permissive parenting. It is the most open-minded due to its strict nature. Most people have experienced this type of parenting while they were growing. Kids brought up using this kind of style end up getting spoiled unless they choose to have self control. Lack of self control may lead them astray for they may not know how to set limits in life.

As a parent, you may find it difficult to pull through reading as an activity. But what you do not know is that when children are young they always look forward to time spent with their parents. For this reason they will do anything including reading to ensure that you participate with them. The fact that you will be sharing time together with them brings a lot of love and contentment. Strengthen that bond more by ensuring that you do not miss any schedules activities or time to play with them.




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